Building Resilience Through Kindness

A successful Group Program that will show you how to use the Language of Kindness to navigate the daily challenges while building essential life skills for feelings & kindness.


“I was super skeptical of the group coaching part. How was that going to be helpful, what would it look like? It turns out that is the thing I’ve really come to value and appreciate most.” 

Trying to parent while making space for feelings without tools and support is exhausting, overwhelming and filling you with you with self-doubt! People consistently share that the community built through weekly calls and the access to asking Tara questions is a really important part of their overall experience and long-term success!


Fall Waitlist

This is for a parent or caring adult who

  • is tired of: whining, not listening, defiance and constant battles
  • wonders 'is this normal'
  • wants to make space for feelings and still get out the door on time
  • is overwhelmed by second-guessing & parent guilt
  • has tried all the things and nothing seems to work!
  • knows they are talking too much in tricky moments, but doesn't know what else to do
Get on the waitlist here

Let's Dig Into: The Language of Kindness

The framework I created to support busy parents like you with:

  • Clear language for navigating tricky situations
  • Building self-esteem and confidence while also laying an important baseline for boundaries and limits
  • Creating a personalized toolbox for Big Feelings that helps you connect with your child in a new way
  • Feeling less stressed because Parent Clues help you understand behaviour and challenges better
I want this! Sign me up for the waitlist!

Language of Kindness = Kindness to self + Kindness to Others + Kindness to the Planet

What Parents Are Saying About Their Experience

"I’ve taken other parenting courses, and this is completely different and so much better! You really get parents, you have practical tips and you are such an effective teacher."

"Thank you for an awesome course and for setting up such a safe and supportive group!"

Building Resilience Through Kindness is designed and facilitated by Tara Gratto M.S.Ed, MA, OCT, an experienced educator, former preschool owner and parent who understands the challenges and demands of Modern Parenting.

Group Coaching program includes:

  • Digital/Audio Learning Modules that can viewed on your schedule
  •  Seven Weekly Live Group Coaching Calls hosted by Tara to answer questions and build community
  • Options for day or evening calls
  •  Private group portal for extra support, connection,  session summaries and Q & A
Yes, I want this! Add my name to the waitlist!

Digital Course Overview


I created this course to be accessible for busy parents with different learning styles. 

You can listen and/or watch the digital modules on your own time, as many times as you like.

Introduction: Language of Kindness (TM pending) – my signature framework  that supports building a connected relationship that will foster important skills for mental well-being, kindness & resiliency.

Module One: Using the Language of Kindness for navigating the daily challenges and tricky behaviour with clear concise language and tools for problem solving effectively.

Module Two: Big Feelings and Unwanted Behaviour: Tantrums, Meltdowns and other tricky behaviour… like Whining.

BONUSBuilding Intentional Connection – Setting You Up for Success Workbook

Module Three: Building a Feelings Toolbox – how to start building tools for Big Feelings and activate your Parent Clues.

Module Four: Connection and Big Feelings Toolbox Part 2 – how to build a toolbox for your family’s individual needs.

Module Five: Talking So Children Understand

Module Six: The Language of Kindness Recap & Navigating Parenting Guilt

Bonus Mini-Lesson: Give Versus Take an approach to sharing that validates feelings and teaches children accountability.


"You built my awareness and understanding in such a clear way. I loved how you shared practical tips, clear strategies and the understanding behind it."

"I listened to your course before going to bed and the next day I was faced with an epic showdown trying to get out the door to school. In the moment I heard your voice telling me not to argue, that logic and reasoning wasn’t going to help in the moment. We were able to calm down and get to school on time!"

"You taught me how to be calmer,
not just told me I need to be calm!"

Building Resilience Through Kindness
Group Program


(payment plans available)

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Tara Gratto M.S.Ed, MA, OCT created this course based on her extensive experience:

  • Working in classrooms, guidance, administration, and for 7.5 years as a hybrid outdoor and play based preschool owner
  • Engaging directly with hundreds of children and their families to support unique learning and emotional needs
  • As a parent who understands how overwhelming the information available can be and how much parent guilt affects our decisions

My goal is to support you with practical strategies and frameworks that will manage the overwhelm while fostering essential life skills with your children. 

Book a 20 Minute Call with Tara Here


Question: Why is there a DIY option and group program?

Answer: The group program is designed to build a community with weekly support and check-ins. People requested an option to do it on their own because their schedule did not align with the group program, but they still wanted to take the course.

Question: What are the main differences between the program and the course?

Answer: The program has a lot of support from Tara and includes all 6 modules of the course. The digital course has been broken into two sections (Modules 1-3 & 4-6) to be taken at your own pace. 

Question: How often does the program run?

Answer: It's currently scheduled to run 4 times a year: Spring, Summer, Fall & Winter.

Question: Do you record the group coaching calls?

Answer: No, these calls are not recorded. This is one of the things that I do to support your privacy and create a safe sharing space for families.

Question: I follow you on Instagram and notice you talk a lot about picture books, will there be books included in this program? 

Answer: Yes I will be talking about how you can use picture books as tools to support your parenting, but there are no books included in the program. 

Question: Do you have a program for 7+ years? 

Answer: Yes! I am currently building one and plan to launch it in Fall 2022.  Having said that, there are several people with children age 6-9 (siblings) who have found the course to be helpful and applicable. I capped the age for the community building aspect. If you have questions about whether it could work for your family, I encourage you to reach out to me and we can chat.