Building Resilience Through Kindness 

A successful parenting program that will help you become the parent you want to be. 

You will learn how to use the Language of Kindness, my signature framework, for skill building and problem solving the three pillars of Kindness: Kindness to Self, Kindness to Others & Kindess to the Planet

The Parent Clue System for Problem Solving will show you how to understand what your child's behaviour means and ways to address it effectively.

Together this system will guide you with what you need to be the parent you imagine.

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I know what kind of parent I want to be, but you gave me the guidelines and framework to make it happen. 

Parent - Building Resilience Through Kindness Group Program

You built my awareness and understanding in such a clear way. I loved how you shared practical tips, clear strategies and the understanding behind it.

Parent - Building Resilience Through Kindness Group Program

This program is for you if...

You're a parent who:

  • wants to make space for feelings and still get out the door on time
  • is overwhelmed by second-guessing & parent guilt
  • is tired of: whining, not listening, defiance and constant battles
  • wants to equip their child with skills for life & resiliency
  • is looking for a way to parent that validates children without undermining yourself

By the end of the program you will

Create A Solid Baseline

By creating a strong foundation using the Language of Kindness, you will build tools and skills for resiliency.



Learn How to Use the Language of Kindness Problem Solving

You will learn how to use clear concise language in tricky moments with a system for problem solving and building skills.

Use Parent Clues  to Understand What Behaviour Means

A system for digging deeper to get at the root of challenges or missing skills so you can support your child.  


Use Language Effectively to Support Your Parenting

By learning how to use language effectively you will foster connection and get children more engaged in listening.

Build Tools and Skills for Feelings

You'll build tools and skills for feelings in calm and connection without turning it into an extra project.                         

Learn about the Stress Cycle and Unintentional Reinforcement

By learning about what's happening in tricky moments we can problem solve more effectively and build skills that work.

What Parents Are Saying About Their Experience

 Being exposed to the Language of Kindness in context of the true meaning of children's resilience is an eye opener for us. As I grapple with giving space for my kids in developing emotional intelligence while also standing firm with boundaries, this program provides tactical strategies with theories that help me unpack the why's behind my children's behaviour.

What's Inside Building Resilience Through Kindness?


This course was designed for busy parents with different learning styles. You can listen and/or watch the digital modules on your own time, as many times as you like.


"You built my awareness and understanding in such a clear way. I loved how you shared practical tips, clear strategies and the understanding behind it."

"I listened to your course before going to bed and the next day I was faced with an epic showdown trying to get out the door to school. In the moment I heard your voice telling me not to argue, that logic and reasoning wasn’t going to help in the moment. We were able to calm down and get to school on time!"

"You taught me how to be calmer,
not just told me I need to be calm!"

What is The Language of Kindness?


10 years in the making, this framework supports busy parents with:

  • Clear language for navigating tricky situations
  • Building self-esteem and confidence while also laying an important baseline for boundaries and limits
  • Creating a personalized toolbox for Big Feelings that helps you connect with your child in a new way
  • Feeling less stressed because Parent Clues for Problem Solving help you understand behaviour and challenges better

Kindness to Self - Kindness to Others - Kindness to the Planet

Group Program includes:

  • Digital/Audio Course that can viewed on your schedule
  •  Six Weekly Live Group Coaching Calls hosted by Tara to answer your questions 
  • Private Community on Circle for extra support, session recordings & community



Question: Is there an option to work with just you?

Answer: Yes, I offer this program as an exclusive support option. Head up to 'Work With Me' in the search bar for details.

 Question: How often does the program run?

Answer: It's currently scheduled to run 4 times a year: Spring, Summer, Fall & Winter.

Question: Do you record the group coaching calls?

Answer: YES! Starting in Fall 2022 all Q & A sessions will be recorded and stored for replay. 

Question: I follow you on Instagram and notice you talk a lot about picture books, will there be books included in this program? 

Answer: Yes I will be talking about how you can use picture books as tools to support your parenting, but there are no books included in the program. 

Question: Do you have a program for 7+ years? 

Answer: Yes and no.  I work with several families with older children through exclusive support. However, there are several people with children age 6-9 (siblings) who have found the course to be helpful and applicable to their children as well. If you have questions about whether it could work for your family, I encourage you to reach out to me and we can chat.


Tara Gratto M.S.Ed, MA, OCT created this course based on her extensive experience:

  • Working in classrooms, guidance, administration, and for 7.5 years as a hybrid outdoor and play based preschool owner
  • Engaging directly with hundreds of children and their families to support unique learning and emotional needs
  • As a parent who understands how overwhelming the information available can be and how much parent guilt affects our decisions

My goal is to support you with practical strategies and frameworks that will manage the overwhelm while fostering essential life skills with your children. 

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